Am I a Christian Counselor?I am most often contacted by individuals who are so troubled by marriage/relationship problems, or PTSD/trauma, that they just want a...
Faith is welcome at my practicePerhaps you're a regular churchgoer, or perhaps you're not religious at all. Perhaps you believe that good therapy must include your...
Fake happiness vs. Mental healthI always have some words of hope for my clients when I feel they are most in need. What I say might surprise you. I say, "My goal for you...
Profound quote from a client: The journey of healingA client said something today about herself that I think profoundly reflects the human experience, and how that relates to healing from...
After an abortion (Not a political post!!!)There are many reasons for difficult emotions following an induced abortion. And they don't fit into neat, fake categories that people...
"Why do I keep choosing abusive men?"I hear this a lot. Women who ask me this often add that they have sabotaged loving relationships with good-hearted men because it didn't...
Understanding intrusive thoughtsFor many of the clients I treat, intrusive thoughts are part of their problem. This is especially true in cases of PTSD or...
A child's imaginationBrain research cited by Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk in his book The Body Keeps the Score shows how early childhood abuse physically damages...